Relationship (??) Advice

Thu, 22 Feb 2007 12:49:44 GMT

Ok, here's the deal. Bear with me since this is hard to explain. I met this guy half a year ago in Russia and we began sort of dating and sleeping together, but there was never anything really official. Then I moved back to the States (we still kept in touch). Anyways, I am back in Russia again and although we aren't dating and haven't had sex or anything, we talk daily and see each other often. We also tend to talk about sexual stuff as well. However, he's constantly worrying about me, such as "The lock on your door is very bad" and "don't walk alone at night"and "where are you?" and "why are you drinking?" and "who is that guy?" and so forth....There are just too many things to list here but you get the picture. And when I was sick he hooked me up with a doctor friend and was really concerned. He also found me the flat I am currently living in and helped me out with a LOAD of other things.

I really like him but I don't know if he feels the same way about me, so I play it off as if I don't care. I petrified of rejection.

Anyways, my question is: Is it normal for a guy friend to be so concerned about everything I am doing, etc.? I've had many guy friends and I've never known them to "take care of me" in the same sort of way as he does. And i think it is more than just a cultural thing because I have a bunch of guy friends here in Russia and they don't do all the things he's done and don't worry as much about me as him!

Is there a chance that he likes me? Likes me more than just a friend? And how can I find out if he does have feelings for me or not? And how can I tell him that I like him without completely tarnishing my ego?

Any advice would be helpful. Thanks for listening. I know a lot about sex, but little about relationships, as you can see! Sorry!

Peace,
K

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Sat, 11 Nov 2006 23:23:45 GMT

Went out last night and met a really cool guy. We talked for hours and made out a bit. At the end of the night he gave me his number, writing it on a pack of cigarettes. But when I got home I realized that I had left the pack in the taxi. I am so sad. And of course I didn't give him MY number. I'll just have to frequent that club every now and then and see if he pops up. Someday...

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Relationship (??) Advice

Lost boy

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